[Music] [Music] um [Laughter] [Music] [Laughter] [Music] oh [Music] oh [Music] on [Music] foreign [Music] me [Music] [Music] me [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] free [Music] [Music] something foreign this is the condition of every mind and every individual born as a human living on this earth all are facing the same destiny in same circumstances means forest bhava means your emotions so every human being is lost in this dark forest of their own emotions irrespective of caste creed nationality or race a korean man a japanese german woman or swiss a dutch man or pakistani an indian or a bangladeshi an african or brazilian and nederlanders or a hamayan doesn't matter every mind is victim of its own attachments and own ignorance every mind is not aware of their own true self in every mind is a hankering in the subjective world to gain some peace some good moments some happiness some nice days some warm nights in bosom of their wife or husband and being in a warm family network with loads of money and loads of luxuries and no illness and no sickness this is the utopian idea of every man and every woman but death sickness illness separation losses are always going to come and take away your dreams hence when the dreams are broken and misery and sickness and pain and separation deceit adultery when this is in the life then there is no peace then there is no joy then there is no happiness just because of somebody dying close to your heart people have been found gone into severe depressions nervous breakdowns so every mind is lost in the forest of their own emotions there is this strong sense of attachment for your siblings for your children naturally and instinctively it is there so when something happens to your loved ones your heart feels the pain when somebody deceives you you your mind feels the pain when your loved one falls sick your heart feels the pain when you are in dire need of money and you have no money then you feel the difficulties and every man and every woman will have a story of their struggle and of their turmoil language might be different scenarios might be different but pain is same so every mind is sharing the same pain same suffering same insecurities and every mind is sharing some happy moments when you received a new watch when you received your first salary when you received your graduation certificate when you got engaged when you got married when you had your child when you won a lottery when you got your pr when you got your dream house or dream car or when you got your dream vacation then there are these sparks of fireworks there's in your life traditional chinese medicine says too much joy will also cause diseases if sorrow can cause diseases so can excitement if depression can cause diseases then being too ambitious will also give you mind illness see those who were born say in indian state of punjab or gujarat or maharashtra they left their village or town or city and moved out this is story of most of you you are your forefathers they moved away from the country and they had to go through a hell of pain and struggle to settle themselves especially the punjabi and gujaratis they were not very well educated so they were not proficient in english or mannerisms that is one of the reason that most of the gujaratis opened up hotels small mortals because you just give a service you don't have to be too you know too many degree holders it's not a specialized service people learn soon and they were all hard working so they all toiled hard and facing the people who don't respect you facing racist comments getting ridiculed and yet working hard so if i just remove the name or the city or the village this story can be easily replaced by a brazilian person or a spaniard or a german or a dutch or a chinese or an african all minds are lost in forest of emotions that's why i call human beings are not rational animals but they are emotional animals the emotions to feel good great the emotion to feel loved and cared the emotion to feel good and healthy and spirited energized and the fears of losing everything so every mind is lost in this dark forest of their own emotions if someone say enters in a dark forest and no light how will this person travel how will the person reach his home when you are lost in this dark forest and no light and no map and no plan and don't know how to come out of it and the forest is infested with wild animals and snakes yen sanders and the one who will show you the path in this dark forest pantaha means the way the one who is going to show the way is the guru and guru alone hence tasmai shri guru vainam hence i bow to my master if there is no guru in life there is no knowledge there is no wisdom when there is no wisdom and you are victim of your own mind just imagine a woman who wanted to be a mother but cannot be a woman sometimes doesn't want to be a mother she has a carrier in her mind but she is being pressurized to become a mother and she can't get pregnant and i know of a woman she tried at least five times the ivf and every time it failed all the hormones which got injected in her body has just taken away her health she was broken and shattered and crying and and i asked i said do you really want to be mothers ivf is not working she said my mind is set actually to pursue my careers but i couldn't because i got married and it was a love marriage and now the family expects a child i have gone through five ivfs nothing is happening they are ridiculing me they are making fun of me they are objectifying me in front of me they are provoking my husband to leave me and on the top i have no security from my husband's side because he's a flanders and he is having extramarital affairs so her body is broken her mind is broken her confidence is gone her love her so-called secured marriage is in tatters and i said well what i can see is you aren't getting anything out of it so just sit down and just think and have an aspect on your life from a distance and then give yourself a consult what you should do don't ask me the advice i cannot give so she had to move out and the day she moved out meaning she said it to the husband and parents you know the in-laws they got so scared she went out for something they changed the locks of the homes filed an fir in police station that she has stolen our jewelry and has run away and they made sure that they put sufficient sections on her in one years of ah she wanted to go to foreign to do her studies they got her passport marked now she cannot travel outside country the day she says i wish to do something for myself and i am not going to do what you are expecting me to do the hell broke loose on us all her loved ones turned against her all the six seven years of marriage gone to drain physically drained mentally trained now who will help in this condition i why i am giving this no this is a real time example this is not a fictional imaginative story which i am narrating you this is a true story so how did she pick herself up it was just because the guru was there when the world was hell-bent to break her the guru the knowledge the wisdom the satsang became the powerhouse from where she could get all the strengths and be on her feet and do what she wanted to do but unfortunately this is another take on this real time story that even after getting battered by samsara she is now pursuing still the samsara that's that one dent in this story [Music] you
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