Sometimes I feel jealous of some people See.. Why do we feel jealous ? Because we feel that we are incompetent. Like the person can sing nicely, but we can't, got jealous. A person can dance nicely, we can't, got jealous. A girl has blue eyes, brown hair, is very beautiful we don't have, got jealous. What I don't have and the other person has and I want that then the jealousy comes. The best way of this is Harjasleen see in yourself what's good in me and make that good the best Are you getting it? when you are happier and contented within you why would we jealous of anybody? See who will listen if everyone starts singing if everyone gets beautiful, there is a comparison between the one who is less beautiful with the one who is more. Well if I do these three fingers, then this finger (first) is small because it is compared with this one(second) and if we compare it (first) with this one (fourth), it gets bigger. Right, fourth finger is smaller than the index finger but the index finger is smaller than the middle finger. So which is small and which is big? And now this fourth finger is, it's called 'cheechi ungli' in Punjabi, we call it as cheechi, this cheechi thinks that everyone is taller than me Oh god, what i have done to you, why did you make me smaller God says, don't worry look ahead, your brother (thumb) is even smaller. Thumb is smaller, so cheechi got happy. Because cheechi saw chucha is smaller than her. Now, this finger (first) is small or big? Neither small nor big who said equal ?.. how ? there is none other If there are two or three then we will compare but if there is only one, then? there is no comparison. When you say, I am not beautiful, I am not intelligent, I don't run fast, why am I small and not taller, why am I fat , why am I not intelligent, why didn't I get merit ? this is because you are comparing yourself with someone, that's why you are saying this Think for sometime every girl of this world are dead. and there is no one except you Harjasleen, now tell me what will you feel? Think on this, it's a very wild thought. There is no one and when there is no one then only we are there. So think about it whatever I am, I am creation of my lord. my lord is best of best so I am best of best. Why compare with anybody ? Never compare Never compare. One girl, three or four girls are sitting here with glasses What do they say? How people tease you for your glasses? Chashmish. This word is same internationally Chashmish, now if someone teases with this name, they cry, weep, fights and abuses and if can't do anything then it hurts a lot. But when someone teases you saying chashmish then say you have only two eyes I have four. I regret you have just two eyes, I have four. Intelligent look comes as soon as you wear spectacles. Even if you put glasses on an idiot, it seems that he has come after doing doctorate and is very sensible. Thing is how you perceive the things will change the whole color of that thing. When you are afraid that someone will make fun of me then you will suffer more. Just have a look on yourself, physically and mentally whatever is there, just see once Whatever you think is not right or disproportionate, so what? take it as in your stride take it in your stride take it in your favor. How? How we are like its very good. Are not like that. You didn't even know how to finish it is not like it is we are not like this or that neither like this nor that, How are we? How are we? Never compare yourself with others. When you don't respect yourself why would others do? If you are short, be proud of your short height, if tall be proud of your tallness, if fat, well we belong to a well nourished family. if slim then can digest anything, give anything to us. Why are you always ready to put yourself down? Always pick yourself up. Okay tell me something, have you ever fallen down by slipping? what you did ? you were just lying down ? because we have fallen now. When someone falls, the first action is, No one has seen. Look left , look right pick yourself up If it hurts too much, the bone has broken, cannot get up, then give voice to someone and take sympathy, oh you have fallen ? I bring glass of milk for you. So many people come and asks about your health, even falling down has advantage Right? If you fall you should pick yourself up. We should not wait for someone to come and take care of us. Why we become so stupid that someone should come and tell us that you are very good, then only you feel that yes I am good. If somebody say that you are stupid and then you feel that yes I am stupid. Use your mind. Mulla Nasruddin's son Fajlu came home laughing loudly shouting Abba distribute sweets. Mulla asked why? He said I failed. He slapped fajlu and said, you have failed, he said everyone has passed and only your son has failed. You should distribute sweets. Everyone has passed and only your son failed and what's wrong in that. A girl, in my known, came back from school and shows her notebook to her mother, she got 0 out of 10. she got zero. She put lines around that zero and told her mother that daily I got stars but today I got moon. It was zero She turned 0 to moon. Little children get stars, one star, two star, three star, she got 0 So she gave shape to that zero from the pencil and said see today, I got moon. I loved it. We are all born Intelligent and smart but slowly our society makes us stupid. Every girl, every boy, every youth, every old, every individual is born with a quality, God never sent anyone without a quality. We all have some good qualities and above all we are divine creations and if God is Satyam Shivam Sundram then we are also Satyam Shivam Sundram.
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