Like this only chanting- Om...Om...Om this sweetness of Om got stirred into the water akin to your mind When mishri (sugar rock) is stirred in water water becomes sweet, similarly when the Nama- eternal name of the Lord, this when mixes in mind then what will the mind become? sweet! Sweet means blissful see how beautifully the sage is saying this thing that who is desirous of bliss he should not go after a girl, should not go after a boy after marriage? Dangerous thing to say... Well, it's your choice- you may go or not let's come back, shouldn't go after money shouldn't go after respect...after chair.. see marriage happens for two reasons let me say something about this as well it is very important matter one is for experiencing sensual pleasures and someone gets married to produce offsprings only One (reason) is this second is that we don't let our mind and senses to go into extreme sensual pleasures and to keep them in command with one person you make a relationship with whom, your mind will gradually while gratifying sensual desires, after giving birth to children- passing through all these processes then one empties himself from all these one marriage is that which is done with the objective of Dharma and another marriage is that eat, drink, and be merry let the ultimate bliss get lost What happens? Knows nothing about spirituality; Knows nothing about bliss Knows nothing about Gyana A young boy had asked me this he says, "As of now, we are only doing a job" and yet unable to take out time for ourself after marriage, how shall I take out time? I said, "This contemplation you need to do, how can I do it on your behalf?" how will you keep that balance, that you should know! Many times many people say, "We want to walk taking both the things together" brother, two thinks will go together then when you have given eighteen years to school, colleges come, first live eighteen years with me eighteen and eighteen... Now they are equal; Now you do the balance What do they say? What? Nonsense you gave eighteen-twenty years for study whatever your degree is now live with me for eighteen years eighteen and eighteen became..Thirty six number is fit Then you do whatever you wish to...Now say It will become difficult, right? that's why truth is not liked Then many are there, they say children shouldn't be taken to Gurumaa often No..No..No! Specially since seven youngsters were given Sanyasa this time at Kumbha seeing them, many got more frightened One had come, he sings very well He started saying, "What? You have given them Sanyasa at such a young age?" in front of me only, he asks him, "how did you take?" You haven't seen anything of the world Didn't ride the horse! Haven't taken out one's procession haven't taken the pleasure of indulgence, didn't give birth to children, didn't take pleasure of children What did you do? if he would have been little older, you would have taken My disciple answered him He said, "If I would have this guarantee I will be alive till fifty-fifty, then I would have done all of that I had no guarantee! and I didn't wish to see anything as well and you don't worry that I haven't seen anything What all my Guru has shown after seeing that nothing is left to be seen there is a faith, there is a love, there is affection and biggest thing, Vairagya- The dispassion. happens to wise folk Vairagya doesn't happens to cowards, We are not marrying because marriage will break— these are weak people This is cowardice This is not a reason to not marry that marriage breaks One even wrote a letter to me, "give blessing, we wish to go for live-in-relationship" I said, "where is my shoe?" What rubbish you are writing me? Have some sense before writing! If the senses can't be in your command, then get married properly What's the problem in that, brother? The household dharma is good it restrains the senses and the mind Marry as per Dharma, give birth to child as per Dharma live life as per Dharma and keep putting a full-stop over desires through Gyana One has to take out time for spiritual practices, How will it happen on its own? after ten-twelve hours of job, the body gets tired, then one sleeps else husband/wife are sitting at home with movie ticket they have booked restaurant, you tell them, "No, I am not going restaurant" "I will meditate", Wife will then pick up a stick and then when you will be beaten, you will remember Guru ji had said in Satsang why didn't I understand then? but if you regret later then what? all wise ones are sitting here It is tough, I know it is very tough and I have great respect for all householders who work and still do their meditation, I have great respect for them I respect all those people who work as well, do spiritual practices as well in Ashram, every Sunday or on different days ten-twenty-fifty seekers come; they do sewa all the day they have run shop for six days on seventh day, they do sewa from morning till evening they could have enjoyed holiday, could have gone to cinema, could have gone for shopping But they come to Ashram, do sewa, how good is that! What an amazing thing it is! Many are there who say two-three years, we will stay here will do spiritual practice, will do sewa and then we will see if we have to get married, will marry I say, okay fine; this is also right! for some time at least, because can give time now Once marriage happens then the possibility decreases a little it becomes difficult also so to take mind inwards 'sabdaksharam parama brahma tasmin chine yadaksharam' while chanting Om...chanting...chanting...chanting, then mind goes silent, silent, silent, then it became silent Then the Om gets dissolved in mind or say mind dissolved in Om that's why the one who is intelligent, the one who is wise should meditate On what? On Om and through the medium of Om one reaches the eternal, pure, all-knowing, liberated Brahman Swarupa It is one's own Self only, but there is problem of mind mind keeps running heather-tether, that's why it needs to be collected, it needs to be brought at one place; it needs to be made focused Dharna is to be done; that's why it is necessary to do spiritual practices one faith on Guru, one faith on Gyana one faith that the path on which we wish to walk may be little, may be slowly you run the vehicle of spiritual practice there is a beautiful Pada of Kabir Sahib, Sahib says that In this body akin to a cart My life is moving and in this human body...Have you ever seen Tonga? It still runs in villages, small town— even today horse is there, wheels are there, seat is there and then Tak..Tak..Tak... It used to be wooden wheel the wheel moves and horse runs it moves slowly if you have ever seen bullock cart then it runs even slower The poor bull is extremely bored, but it keeps walking slowly slowly Sahib is using the metaphor of a bullock cart for human body that this body is like a bullock cart, Right? and this human body is now moving on the lane of the life doing Sadhana with the hope and faith that my Rama, My lord is running this body and may this my body always be on the path of Sadhana and not anything else May it keep moving May the sadhana never ever stop so the one who drives the vehicle it is called 'Hankana' Hankana...Gadi Hankana! 'Hankana' means he is using the reigns to manage and move the cart Hankana— to use those reigns to move that bullock cart Hankan wali chel chabili bethana wala Ram Who is running this body? Maya— the cosmic illusion what did he call Maya? Chhel Chabili Chhel Chhabili means Maya is equivalent to a beautiful women who can seduce you so Maya can seduce you and you actually had already been seduced by the Maya who is running this body? Maya 'Hankan wali chhel chabili' 'baithana wala Rama' but who is sitting inside this vehicle? Rama Rama is sitting! The cart got stuck in sand, destination is far cart of life is stuck in material pursuits The destination of Samadhi got far Righteous, unrighteous get ferried over smoothly and sinners broke down who practices Dharma— the good deeds but doesn't take the ownership of the good done Here, the meaning of 'Adharmi' is not the who is against Dharma He is 'Dharmi' but who don't take ownership of being 'Dharma', that's why 'Adharmi' He will get ferried over smoothly, but the ones who are sinners and hedonists what will become of their cart? It will break down into pieces Called the doctors from different countries, they bought herbs and roots but no herbs and roots came in use when the cord with Rama's abode is broken when this cart will be diseased then will eat medicines, vaidya, doctor will give medicines despite taking all the medicines, nothing will be of any use because the cord that was there to Rama's abode, now that is broken so body is gone, it has left Once left, four people together tie the corpse to a wooden pyre even today, how the corpse is taken? too bad...change it! Something designer should be there. Isn't it? Something nice They join the broken wooden sticks, tie the corpse with the ropes and take it away Bad...very bad! but this will only happen; Four people will hold up and take away by tying to cremation ground set it (the corpse) ablaze like Holi like the Holi is burnt, likewise they'll burn your body Wails the distraught wife, "my companion is gone" 'Tiriya' means the wife; the woman See here as well, it's the man who has been killed!
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