to create a child means a bigger responsibility so you should be correcting your own physical and mental illnesses first two years man two to three years spent meditating doing a sauna eating well reading the scriptures keeping mind clean of all illnesses and then at appropriate time they should copulate appropriate time even you know that was you know taken it was consulted actually the way they are usually would be an astrologer also said they would do the planetary calculations which which would be the ideal time for you it's a whole science behind it now you might say why why astrological calculations I can tell you say you had a signle last years last year or last last year huge storm if somewhere there is a tornado happening if some someplace there is a storm happening would that be a good time to have sex and create a baby do you think so that would be a good time to do that nobody would ever in his senses even think about that they would be running for their own life the conception has to be in a very peaceful time and when body is not sick there are some rules for it nobody follows these rules hence you have these brats coming into your life asana which a pregnant woman sure to do because her pelvic girdle will become more flexible and at the time of the delivery it will open up much better the cervix will dilate much better and without any pain the baby will just come out like an athlete running out them a cask okay once the delivery has happened then it is said that the mothers should take extra care for herself because her body rasa Odessa is or depleted she has created a nutria no new person out of her body so the chances of postpartum depression are more so this whole nonsense of going back to work within 12 weeks I don't think so it is a good thing for the woman or for the child minimum time as long as she's breastfeeding she should not be working that is the Ayurvedic opinion you can always go against it you are already doing so many things which are against the rules and regulations of the Ayurveda philosophy because that is the time when the mother is going to feed the baby not only she will have an emotional bridging with her baby the baby will gain the emotional security with the love and the affection and the crossing which the mama is going to give to that baby and if you leave this baby with the nanny and they have these breast pumps where the mother is going to remove the milk from her breast put it in that bottle the bottle goes into the refrigerator and whenever the baby cries the nanny is going to put that milk in the baby's mouth and if you are giving association of a bottle to the baby bottle will always then be in the baby's life youngest milk bottle adult and Co whole bottle the bottle will then always be this this is the best past time which I am seeing the mothers have put their little infants in front of the TV put the cartoon on and the child is going to like a cartoon character himself or herself they will catch the language they will catch and learn the ways they speak in the way they move the way they act the child is absorbed the child's brain is like a sponge it is going to suck up everything about haluska bollywood Kagami person che Salma hotel a la patate appear ago I curl in New Jersey must be just 13 or so and she was depressed really really too depressed what for she doesn't has a boyfriend and everybody's making fun in her school everybody's making fun of her you are ugly duckling that's why there you don't have a boyfriend in a 13 year old girl she's yet to celebrate her 13th birthday it was off maybe next four months it if she was depressed this is the effect of the television watching this is the effect of the society around her what a shame it's not that it is happening here only no not even in India it is the same thing there was this one experiment done and it was observed that when mother holds the baby on her chest the rhythm of the heart matches made by a beats it's synchronized beat by beat the heart matches the rhythm of matches so in this rhythm if the mom sings a lullaby which has a story of great masters about the Santa Martha and she talks about sings these wonderful slokas to her child you know what the child will absorb all these vibrations the child will become so strong in his psyche and especially the brain part our brain receives the sound vibrations very well and our sages when they when they had designed the slokas it was not just meant for singing or chanting the shlokas were meant to bring changes in the brain how many of you would you know ever understand this the intonation of Sanskrit verses it has been recorded experimented it is in documentation that it affects your brain every sound us as such and as such every sound will have an impact on your brain but the Sanskrit chants chants the way it is sung the intonation stop aussies which are created when it is being said it has a much deeper effect on the brain to adult indefinitely to a child Ramon and bottom are super them [Music] gable um garner multi one party tongue said the ship that the Monsieur deduction econia movie malayalam sort of a nice song she would ba ba treguna so the guru so nah [Music] no mommy said guru sound production she by Rubino she Rosario capitis tongue multicom artisan didim I guarantee me Thomas Gunjan I am Chuck showroom merely dummy [Music] the space we go to bed [Music] Media ding Rena Yagami [Music] chitin days sort of a sound sale she and a sidewalk on a Marty guru Karuna yeah [Music] yes yes murdered a month in yharnam with but the destroy him sir Amos that was somebody the smaller sub Oh deity Nikki Umbra money dark auto neither going aboard a year but ha saying before the mountain the body bomb but um yet [Music] [Music] [Music] the neurons size and functioning gets enhanced your own memories are in these neurons and this kind of chant induces this Communist induces this you know beautiful experience that the child gets the great benefit and it is said nobody is great if the mom is not great right matri devo bhava the first and of all was to be worshipped is it said your mother that's why in India we don't have any one mother's day every day is a Mother's Day we don't just have one Mother's Day listening to the Sanskrit chants or listening to the verses of our great masters when a mom sings these kind of shovelled and whiny and verses to the baby the baby's brain is going to grow much better much better mom's Duty doesn't end just by delivering the child mom's Duty is actually going to begin now and for minimum next six years she should make herself available to that child loving child carrying the child if she can do something from balm please go ahead and the father's job is not just to give the semen to the woman he should be supplying the money and the support and the protections because she's doing a much important job of taking care of that child not only physically but emotionally intellectually so the role of the man becomes important in providing that right kind of atmosphere say after three or four or years she can do something from home please go ahead but the mother should never be exhausted the mother should not be stressed the mother should be always happy happy happy because if she is happy the baby will be happy if the baby will be happy the baby will grow up to become a happy adult and happiness doesn't comes from things and money happiness comes from within how many mothers are understanding this say I am one person who is totally for women's liberation but that doesn't mean that I am going to ignore the role of her mothers when she becomes a mother she's like a god she has creatives of being so like God she has to love cares give and give and give and these little angels are themselves God so a God is loving a god and what the beautiful thing isn't it poor guys they will never ever have to experience this the best what they can do is obliged by earning well and protecting home and maybe changing the nappy here and death you know the the feel of this having a baby in your body growing this is a fantastic feeling and that's the time when the mother should keep her mind involved in devotion and bhakti and she should keep her intellect involved in learning or doing so at Daiso there means reading good scripts and understanding those scripts because why are you everything is getting transferred to the baby everything and I have a very strong opinion which is backed up with the the great classic scriptures that if a ma if a man and a woman live like a yogi they can give birth to a yogi and accomplished a yogi if a man and the woman are meditators they can give birth to a baby who would be so easily into meditating I have a family who comes to me from Toronto they were there in last week satsang and they have a six year old boy and he said I question I said yes he says when I meditate you know the six year old boy is saying when I meditate I see so many colours is it correct six years old boy is saying this I would kudos to the parents who gave such environment in Toronto in Canada to this kid that this kid has grown up worshipping the master the guru doing the meditation listening to the chance what a good childhood these parents are giving to this baby to help these young moms who are not very familiar with what to teach their young siblings their children I gave a thought and then I created a comic book series for children we brought one toy oh then the second one is now out that is the story of a girl called of Milly so that you know with that comic the children with all the screwball colorful pictures and they can enjoy the story they can see the character they will learn something out of it and for God's sakes please don't give your children the PSP you're killing their brains you are you are doing that you are harming their brains if you really wish your kids goodness and well-being take them out in the grass coat let them play basketball let them play table tennis lawn tennis teach them just the best brain exercise is just best to sharpen the abilities of the brain chess should be taught don't do anything which will hurt their brain don't say I am absolutely against these violent games soccer dad too when they play without the helmets although they do wear a helmet but still the brain is the most soft organ in your body yes the skull is a hard case on the top of it but it should be still protected any injury on the frontal lobe is going to change the personality of the child one of the leading neurologists in California dr. Daniel Eamon has done research of last 20 years where he has now documented aids that violent games or a fall which a baby had in a two year three or five years six years of age the baby had a fall on a cement floor on a wooden floor and there was no bleeding nothing harm done and parents thought oh it is all fine but eight years in after six or seven years of the time the child became so frustrating so angry so bully so broad so hyper won't sit and his you know fighting with everybody and they couldn't understand what's going wrong they went to the psychiatrist psychotic started giving drugs you know to calm the child not working becoming more worse more worse or worse and finally when they ended you know in his clinic he does this colored scan and when the scan was done they found out that there was injury on the frontal lobe in some cases it is the temporal lobe in some cases the deep down you know the injury happened to the hypothalamus region that was not functioning properly that is why the child was having these problems the make sure that you you know don't drop your babies accidentally don't do that ever you need to be very very protective so the mother has to be attentive not just caring and loving she has to be very attentive [Music]
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