the pain which you feel due to your miscalculations hearts not only your heart but also your ego so in next ever relationship whichever you are going to have then you raisee your alarms More and You Begin to scan more and then you be become more cautious you'll save your wall but you'll scan the other person more deeply and I don't think so this is a way ever to relate with any any individual The Masks are there the false faces are there and the real you is hidden somewhere Behind These masks and the real faces of your loved ones too are hidden from you and whenever you find out something which is not compatible to your heart you get surprised you get heartbroken when you see how the person could say this how such a person could conduct in this way how could that person be so rude how could that person be so abusive he he used to be so nice she used to be so good what happened were you wrong or was that person always wrong and you couldn't see that such instances put you on tenter hooks and now you will be further more alert and further more masking your true feelings even from yourself and the life becomes a Dr a burden the life becomes a bondage not a celebration and then you aren't able to relate with anyone the truth is this you aren't able to relate with yourself and this is the core of the problem we haven't accepted ourselves so how can we accept others and and when we like someone then we fail to see the negative part of that person and when we hate someone then we won't be able to see the good points of your enemy we can't we can't really see properly if our eyes are hazy we have to clear up our eyes and when you have cleared up your eyes only then you can see and accept as you are and then you are able to accept other people as they are with their vices with their virtues the relationships then can function well and I say even if the relationships with other don't work please be focused on yourself and learn to have a successful relationship with your own mind being aware being watchful of the mind never judging yourself those who judge others are actually judging thems more and they get angry what they see in themselves you don't like what you see in your mind then a natural instinct provokes you to stop seeing yourself and you begin to see others and when you find the same faults which you too have you'll get angry on them actually you are being angry on yourself but you aren't ready to accept that you are angry on yourself you don't want to be angry on yourself how can you live with yourself with this much anger which is uh being pointed towards yourself that's the reason whenever we see any fallacy in people we don't pardon them we will not ever forget and we'll make sure that we condemn them in public in private and actually when you are condemning others you are just condemning yourself only if you could be compassionate to yourself and accept as you are this paves the way to accept people as they are a realized person can never be angry on seeing mistakes of individuals because he knows that once upon a time he was exactly like that and when he sees the mistakes and negativities of people he is more compassionate and the master would really wish and hope and work with that individual to help the individual come out of these self condem condemning attitudes and accepting as you are and the wonderful thing which happens is that once you have accepted yourself you are able to see all dark corners of your mind and whichever dark Zone you have found it gets deleted if you see anger aware f a magic will happen the anger will go you can never be aware F and angry you can never be aware and full of greed you can never be aware and sleepy judgmental condemning others sinful so I would sum up the sin is just a sign that the person is not aware because if you are aware fully there is no chance no chance that any sinful act can happen every individual is going through stages of evolution speed can be slow very slow so slow like a snail or so static and stationary like a stone a stone will not move around Rock will not move on its own but still every rock is changing every plant is changing every human being is changing your mind is changing now whether that change is happening for worse or whether that change is happening for good but change is happening if we give direction to this change then it can transform your whole life and if you are not aware then it's a lost case love yourself only then you can love others love yourself fully love yourself as you are because the moment you accept what you are and the moment you bring this raise of awareness to your mind you able to dispel the dark zones of your mind you are able to bring bring Illumination in your mind you are able to bring this Divine Light In Yourself acceptance is the Mantra accept yourself loving yourself is Mantra love yourself once you do that then it will be so easy to accept others love others because in every other person you will see your own reflection your own reflections
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